Sexism Has No Place in American Society
For all that's wrong with Hillary, I have to offer a clear denunciation on what happened today at a rally in New Hampshire. [Read the story here] Sexism has no place in American society. Just as it would be immoral and repugnant for anyone (to attempt) to degrade Obama on account of his paternal heritage, there is no tolerance for people who want to take women back a hundred years. Of course, I know that I am preaching to the choir here, but there is no denying that there are possibly millions of men and women in the United States who believe that women are not fit to lead, to challenge, and to be as equal as men, particularly in religious circles that still foolhardily teach that subordinate Eve came from the rib of Adam! But as well there is a bigger question here. The question of the perception of women; as sexual objects, as strictly child bearers, as air-heads, as docile domestics, as pushovers, and as innately, both physically and intellectually, inferior to men; all these issues confront women. Obviously, women have made great strides since Betty Friedan produced her book, The Feminine Mystique, in 1963, but she exposes what I believe is still an agitation among many women, a revealing glimpse into one facet of the struggles that women face even in 2008.
Excerpts from Chapter 1 of Betty Friedan's The Feminine Mystique
"The problem lay buried, unspoken, for many years in the minds
of American women. It was a strange stirring, a sense of dissatisfaction,
a yearning that women suffered in the middle of the twentieth
century in the United States. Each suburban wife struggled with
it alone. As she made the beds, shopped for groceries, matched
slipcover material, ate peanut butter sandwiches with her children,
chauffeured Cub Scouts and Brownies, lay beside her husband at
night--she was afraid to ask even of herself the silent question--"Is
this all?"...
The suburban housewife--she was the dream image of the young American women and the envy, it was said, of women all over the world. The American housewife--freed by science and labor-saving appliances from the drudgery, the dangers of childbirth and the illnesses of her grandmother. She was healthy, beautiful, educated, concerned only about her husband, her children, her home. She had found true feminine fulfillment. As a housewife and mother, she was respected as a full and equal partner to man in his world. She was free to choose automobiles, clothes, appliances, supermarkets; she had everything that women ever dreamed of...
For over fifteen years, the words written for women, and the words women used when they talked to each other, while their husbands sat on the other side of the room and talked shop or politics or septic tanks, were about problems with their children, or how to keep their husbands happy, or improve their children's school, or cook chicken or make slipcovers. Nobody argued whether women were inferior or superior to men; they were simply different. Words like "emancipation" and "career" sounded strange and embarrassing; no one had used them for years. When a Frenchwoman named Simone de Beauvoir wrote a book called The Second Sex, an American critic commented that she obviously "didn't know what life was all about," and besides, she was talking about French women. The "woman problem" in America no longer existed...
Just what was this problem that has no name? What were the words women used when they tried to express it? Sometimes a woman would say "I feel empty somehow . . . incomplete." Or she would say, "I feel as if I don't exist." Sometimes she blotted out the feeling with a tranquilizer. Sometimes she thought the problem was with her husband or her children, or that what she really needed was to redecorate her house, or move to a better neighborhood, or have an affair, or another baby. Sometimes, she went to a doctor with symptoms she could hardly describe: "A tired feeling. . . I get so angry with the children it scares me . . . I feel like crying without any reason." (A Cleveland doctor called it "the housewife's syndrome.") A number of women told me about great bleeding blisters that break out on their hands and arms. "I call it the house wife's blight" said a family doctor in Pennsylvania. "I see it so often lately in these young women with four, five and six children who bury themselves in their dishpans. But it isn't caused by detergent and it isn't cured by cortisone."...
"If I am right, the problem that has no name stirring in the minds of so many American women today is not a matter of loss of femininity or too much education, or the demands of domesticity. It is far more important than anyone recognizes. It is the key to these other new and old problems which have been torturing women and their husbands and children, and puzzling their doctors and educators for years. It may well be the key to our future as a nation and a culture. We can no longer ignore that voice within women that says: "I want something more than my husband and my children and my home." [1]



































